Children communicate through play. So we meet them there.
Young children don't have the words to describe what's happening inside them. But they show us — through how they play, what they draw, how they react, and what they avoid. Play therapy is how a counselor enters a child's world to help them process, heal, and grow.
Parents are included throughout the process — this is a partnership.
Why play? Because that's how children make sense of the world.
Adults process difficult experiences through reflection and conversation. Children process through play — it's not a lesser form of expression, it's their native language. In the playroom, a child can act out fears, experiment with outcomes, and build emotional regulation in a way they simply can't access through sitting and talking. Play therapy takes this seriously. The counselor creates a safe, structured space where the child leads — and uses what unfolds to help them heal.
Signs your child might benefit from play therapy
Children rarely say "I need help." They show it in behavior. If you've noticed several of these in your child, a conversation with a counselor is worth having.
What play therapy addresses
Childhood anxiety and worry
Separation anxiety, school anxiety, social anxiety, OCD tendencies, excessive fears. The playroom gives children a safe place to practice managing the anxiety response — with a counselor present to help.
Childhood trauma
Abuse, neglect, witnessing violence or accidents, medical trauma. Children who experience trauma often can't describe what happened — they act it out. Play therapy provides a structured, safe outlet for processing that cannot happen through conversation alone.
Grief and loss
Loss of a parent, grandparent, sibling, or pet. Divorce or family separation. Children grieve differently than adults — they may seem fine one moment and dysregulated the next. Play therapy meets them in that process.
Behavioral challenges
Aggression, defiance, impulse control difficulties, explosive anger. Play therapy helps children understand their emotional experience so they can respond rather than just react.
Major life transitions
A new baby in the home, a move, a school change, parental divorce. Transitions disrupt a child's sense of safety. Play therapy helps them re-establish stability when the world has shifted.
Social and developmental challenges
Difficulty making or keeping friends, sensitivity to sensory input, ADHD-related social struggles. The playroom is a structured social environment where skills can be practiced safely.
How play therapy works at Renew
Parent Consultation First
Before your child comes in, we talk with you. We want to understand what you're seeing, what's changed, and what you hope for your child. This is essential context — and it's also where we answer every question you have before any session begins.
The Therapy Session
Your child meets with our play therapist in a dedicated session room with carefully selected therapeutic tools — including expressive materials, sand tray, art supplies, and purposeful play items. The counselor observes, engages, and gently facilitates — following the child's lead. Most kids genuinely enjoy coming.
Parent Check-Ins
Parents receive regular updates — not private details of what the child expressed, but themes, progress, and specific things to reinforce at home. Play therapy only works when parents are engaged partners in the process. You'll always know where things stand.
Progress and Transition
Most children don't need play therapy indefinitely. As they develop the emotional vocabulary and coping tools they came in without, sessions become less frequent and eventually conclude. We'll tell you when we think the work is done.
How we work with parents
When we're counseling your child or teen, you are not on the outside of the process. Here's what you can expect from us:
Related reading from our counselors
Who you'll work with
Play therapy at Renew is led by Kimberly Reagan, LPC-S — our child and play therapy specialist.
What parents ask about play therapy
Your child is showing you something. Let's figure out what it is.
The free 15-minute Fit Call starts with your story. Tell us what you're seeing, and we'll help you figure out whether play therapy is the right path for your child.
In-person in Longview · Ages 3–9 · No referral needed
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